Tuesday, February 16, 2016

Lately with the Lu Crew

Took a few weeks to reflect, introspect, and gather my thoughts. But along the way, here's what we've been up to:
  • We had a wonderful visit with our Nana and Pop, who we just adore. Lots of great conversation and quality time, including a girls-only shopping trip and some hoops for the guys. 


  • We squeezed in several fun playdates with sweet friends of all ages. <3

  • The second the temperatures warmed, we headed outside for some Vitamin D.


  • We were overjoyed to have Pancakes and Pajamas Day at school. :)
  • We hosted a Super Bowl Party and cheered loud and proud for our Panthers. While we did not end up with the big win this year, we had a lot of fun along the way and can't wait to see what next season brings. :) We also let a certain somebody stay up late and watch the entire Super Bowl. He was PUMPED. <3

 
 

  • We carted a couple of cuties to preschool whose parents had not yet returned from the Super Bowl.
  •  My hub and I snuck out for a date night.
  • After having a nasty case of strep throat last month, I managed to contract the "most severe ear infection" the doctor had ever seen this month. What's next? Chicken pox?! ;)
  • We stayed on top of our studies, including science and reading, of course. :)

  • My hub whisked our daughter away for their second annual Daddy-Daughter Dance, first texting me to ask my permission for the date. <3 He picked her up at the door promptly at 4:30 pm, with a lovely bouquet of yellow flowers in hand, before meeting up with other daddy/daughter friends for dinner and then the dance. Just the sweetest thing.


 


  • We found out my (step)sister's first baby will be a boy! We are so excited to meet sweet Sam this summer. And clearly, we were Team Blue when heading to the gender reveal party. :)

  • We celebrated Valentine's Day as a family and just had the best day together: We surprised the kids with a few gifts and sweets in the morning and then headed to church. After a yummy lunch with dear friends, we headed home to relax and nap and stay cozy in front of the fireplace. That night, we Lu ladies were surprised and spoiled with a lovely dinner made and served by our Lu men at our very own restaurant. It was the sweetest thing, and Banks was the most precious, attentive waiter. Melt my heart. <3 We ended the day with family game night and had so much fun!

 Waiting for our dinner...
  Time to eat.
 The cutest waiters
 Our menu :)
  • We had lots of fun on President's Day, while home from school, which included target competitions (a HUGE hit that was actually a great way for Banks to get extra practice with addition!), balloon rockets, sack races, and game playing. 
 





Welp, that pretty much sums it up. And February marches on... :)


Thursday, February 11, 2016

When You're Ready to Dive, But There's Nowhere to Jump

Be still and know that I am God. Psalm 46:10.
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I have been in a confusing, introspective place recently. A place where I am ready to dive in to whatever waters God wants me to swim. I have prayed, fervently, "I am ready, God. Show me the way. Show me the path you want me to take to best honor you, to be a disciple for you, to give back to this world, to make a difference. I am ready, Lord. My heart, eyes, and ears are open. Show me the way." Day after day, week after week, month after month, I have prayed this prayer.

What's more, my hub and I have been praying for guidance, and seeking counsel from trusted friends and family, on a potentially life-changing decision. I have prayed for clarity and waited for the answer. But. None has come. Yet. 

So. We pray and we wait. Pray and wait. And wait and wait and wait. 

And here is what is clear to me, after months of praying and waiting for answers:

Be still and know that I am God.
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I am foolish. I want things done on my timeline. I want my prayers answered when I think they should be answered. I want to know my path now, RIGHT NOW. I am tired of waiting. I want to know. I want to know right now. I am foolish.

I don't get to choose when my prayers are answered, when clarity is offered. Instead, I must wait. Diligently. Patiently. Constantly. And remember

Be still and know that I am God.
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All around me--for family members, for much-loved friends--big things are happening. Babies are on the way, both biologically and through adoption. Gifts and talents are being used as platforms to give to others--for locals in need, for hospitalized children. Bible study groups are being created and cultivated.

It is amazing to see. It is beautiful to see. To watch as my village--my closest family and friends--challenge themselves and give back in so many amazing ways. Nothing makes me prouder than to know them and love them. And all to God's glory.

But honestly? It has made me feel...inadequate. I want to give back. I am READY to give back. I want to DIVE IN. What can I do? How can I help? How can I use the specific gifts the Lord has given me to give back? How can I glorify God? "I am ready, God. Show me the way. What do YOU want me to do with my life?" 

So. I have prayed. And waited. 

Be still and know that I am God.
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It has been humbling. Being so incredibly proud of my family, of my beloved friends--for the steps they are taking to glorify God. Using their gifts. Making a difference. It is a sight to see. But also...humbling. Because I am ready. But the response has been...silence. 

And then, last Sunday happened. At church. When I was praying hard during worship. Again. The same sentiment I have been praying. Again. "I am ready, God. Show me the way. What should I do to honor you? What can I do to glorify you? I am ready." And the verse suddenly, and as clear as day, appeared in my head:

Be still and know that I am God.
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When the service concluded, I kissed my hub goodbye as he took our babies home. Meanwhile, I stayed to volunteer in our church's children's program during the next service. There would be a new Bible verse for the children to learn, we were informed. And, while sitting in a room with the rest of the adorable preschoolers and class leaders, the verse popped up on the screen: 

Be still and know that I am God.
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Finally, it hit me. 

This is a season of quiet for me. This is a season where I am meant to support those in my life whom I adore, those who are doing BIG things for the Lord--my family and friends welcoming in new life, my dear friends supporting those in need by organizing efforts to help our community and start Life Groups. This is THEIR time to shine. It is my time to support them. It is my time to

Be still and know that I am God.
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So. I love and support the best way I can. While my hub and I wait for clarity on our prayers as to where our life will go, what our path will look life, I offer my greatest love, support, devotion, and admiration to those around me, glorifying God in their beautiful journeys, while doing whatever I can to make them shine brightly for our Lord. This is my time to be still. This is their time to shine.

Meanwhile, I will continue to pray. And wait. And do my best to remember to 

Be still and know that I am God.


Monday, January 25, 2016

Cheers To The Weekend: Errr...On Monday Edition

I had plans of finishing writing and publishing this post on Friday, but alas, last week turned into a busy one, filled with school volunteering, 100-day celebrations, birthday party planning for a very special friend, snow playing, and on and on and on.. <3 So, today I am saying CHEERS to the weekend....after the weekend-ha! Here's a small bit of what we were up to last week and what we were CHEERS-ing: 

Bundled up babies. 'Nuff said. ;)


100th Day of School. This school year is flyyyyying by, and I am counting down 'til summer, when I'll have all three of my littles home with me. Last Thursday was the 100th day of school, and each kindergartener was asked to make a shirt with 100 items on it. It should come as no surprise that my little big guy wanted 100 footballs on his shirt. He had such a fun day! And now, less than 80 days 'til summer!

 
Playdates. All three of my babes had individual playdates last week, which they loved. And then, on Tuesday, I took my littlest two to SkyZone for a special (double) momma date. 




Surprise school lunches. After our trip to SkyZone, Raleigh, Harrison, and I had so much fun surprising Banks for lunch!


Snow!!! We got a couple of inches of snow and ice on Friday/Saturday, which meant (1) no school on Friday, (2) lots of snow fun as a family on Saturday, and (3) a 2-hour delay today! 



Grown-Up Game Night. My hub and I had the BEST time on Friday night at an adults only dinner party and game night with some of our favorite neighborhood peeps. The food was amazing (thank you Matthews family!), the company was awesome, the drinks were flowing, and the laughs continued until late into the night. So, so fun!


Pajama Party Wine Tasting. The following night, one of my girlfriends and I hosted a pajama wine-tasting birthday party for one of our nearest and dearest. It was an absolute blast! When my hub and I used to live in Atlanta, we would do this each month with some close famliy/friends; so, when the forecast turned dangerous as the weekend approached, my girlfriend and I changed our original Uptown Charlotte restaurant party plans to an in-home jammie/wine party. And it did not disappoint! It was SO fun!!! Happy 35th to our girl, V! 

 My first attempt at making a banner with my new Silhouette.
 Rachel and me, the co-hostesses :)


The birthday girl and me :)

The start of a new sport: basketball! Last week, Banks started his lastest atheletic endeavor: basketball! I have vivid memories of cheering on my big brother in his bball games as a child, and it was awesome to see Banks take to the court (and score his first official basket!) late last week. :)


And with that, we say CHEERS to a new week! One filled with lots of promise and excitement and new arrivals and celebrations and amazing blessings for family and friends we love so dearly. <3 
 
Have a great week, y'all!
 
Oh, and also? GO PANTHERS!!!! KEEP POUNDING! We'll be cheering loud and proud for our Panthers, especially our favorite Panthers player, Graham, as he and his teammates head to the SUPER BOWL! Woohoo! What an awesome year for our two favorite football teams! Now, we just hope that the outcome for the Panthers is better than it was for our Tigers. Go Panthers!!! Bring it on home!

Sunday, January 17, 2016

Remember Not To Forget...

1 year, 8 months.
"One, Two, Fwee, Fo-uh, Fie, Sics, Seben, Eight, Nine, TEN! Hewe I come!" His precious voice rings out as he runs joyfully around the house, looking for his big sister during a boisterous game of hide-and-seek. 

To say my little buster's language has grown leaps and bounds over the last few months is an understatement. He is putting little phrases/sentences, together, adding lots of inflection to everything he says, and making sure to keep all of our attention by putting his face directly in ours when we focus on something else for even a moment. He answers complex questions ("What'd you dream about last night?" "Banks!" or "Milk!" he answers, or whatever else his sweet heart comes up with) and follows directions amazingly well.

He loves to sing. L.O.V.E.S. to sing. Twinkle, twinkle. You are my sunshine. This little light of mine. ABCD..., Wheels on the bus, Bringing home a baby bumblebee. At any given moment, if you are within earshot, you will hear the sweetest little boy singing his heart out, smiling from ear to ear when he realizes he has an audience. 

This boy somersaults. Jumps. Runs. Hops. Bounces. Dances. Tiptoes. Climbs. And all, gleefully. All, with complete confidence and poise. 

He adores his big brother. And feels so sad when his big sister is away at school. He loves his momma but is obsessed with his daddy. The once shy and separation-anxiety-filled little boy is now an outgoing, confident, friendly fella, one who loves animals and bubbles ALMOST as much as he loves school buses. Those are his most favorite. 

His sweet tooth rivals that of his momma's. While not much of a meat-lover, he does enjoy "co-ern" and "bean beans." And he can drink any milk addict under the table. :) 

He sleeps with his "blank" and "bubby" for every nap and night-night, never putting up a fight when it's time for some shut eye. He enjoys a good snuggle and gives the best hugs, saying "Squeeeeeeze" while he oh so affectionately wraps his arms around our necks. 

He adores reading books and watching "Puck," the name he gave "Peppa Pig," which is now the term the whole family uses when watching the cartoon. Being outside is his happy place, whether it be cruising in the wagon during family bike rides, soaring through the air on his swing, jumping on his trampoline, or drawing to his heart's content with sidewalk chalk. 

"He is just happy to be here," my hub and I always say. And boy oh boy, are we glad he is. <3


4 years. 
She doesn't walk. She floats. She prances. She moves through the world with the greatest of elegance. Coordinated and flexible, long and lean, her graceful movements come naturally. 

She is sneaky and daring, this one, and is often found pushing limits, breaking rules, and trying to get away with all she can. She learns quickly and easily and, while flattered by praise, is easily discouraged when reprimanded. Although sensitive at times, she bounces back quickly, and can go from happy to sad to happy again, like the flip of a switch. 

She spells and writes her name beautifully, loves to color, and has come into her own in preschool this year. She enjoys dancing and crafting, singing and performing. But most of all, this girl loves fashion. Not loves. Adores it. Dresses are her love language. She is happiest when discussing clothes, which is why her consequence for making bad choices is losing the right to choose what she wears that day. 

She loves painted nails and lipstick, dress-up clothes and princesses. But she can hit and throw a ball with the best of them. And while she would often prefer to play quietly with her "honeys" (aka dolls), she won't hesitate to take on her big brother in a sword fight or get involved in a game of family football. She loves the outdoors and can often be found holding worms or snails or lizards or any other creepy crawler that comes her way. 

She is the girliest tomboy I know. She is my best pal. Her warm smile and genuine giggle will light up even the gloomiest of days. And the beauty of her golden curls is rivaled only by that of her loving heart. We are so thankful she is ours. <3


6 years. 
He is the definition of a first born: a rule-follower, a leader, a high-achiever. He sets goals and pushes himself to reach them, competing even when there is no competition-we have no idea where that competitive spirit came from. ;) 

He walked into kindergarten and never looked back. Never hesitated. Adjusted easily. And made new friends along the way. He behaves well, is kind to all, and does his homework each day...with only minor complaining. :) His memory is like no other and hearing him read with growing confidence, ease, and fluency each evening makes this momma's heart so very proud.

But. Sports are his happy place. More specifically, football is his passion. He eats, breathes, lives, and loves football, sitting silently to watch televised games, playing his heart out on his own flag football team, practicing every spare minute he can squeeze into his day, and wearing a jersey as much as physically possible. He is happiest when outdoors and in the company of friends--and when those things collide and end up on a football field, well, you'll never find a happier boy. 

He is creative and clever, often creating his own artistic projects at the desk in his room, his walls now decorated with drawings and masterpieces he has hung himself. Most artwork centers around football and Star Wars, and he loves surprising his mom and dad with special notes and letters for no reason other than because he wants to tell them that he loves us through his creations. 

Never have I seen a kinder, gentler, more loving big brother. He is patient and helpful and sweet and forgiving, even when younger siblings do their best to step on his toes. He loves affection and he loves attention and will go to great lengths to ensure he gets both many, many times throughout the day. 

He loves his friends almost as much as he loves his family and is so proud that he is now permitted to walk or ride his bike to his buddies' homes all by himself. Although once hesitant and scared when faced with new obstacles, he now faces them head-on, such as no longer hesitating to ride full-speed down a hill on his two-wheeler. He now welcomes the challenge. And smiles proudly when he accomplishes it.

He is one in a million, our oldest one. And we thank God for him each and every day.